What IS Patriarchy & How Do We Heal from It?

Feeling the Grace of Mother Divine & the Fae

When I was prepping for grad school in women’s spirituality 20 years ago, “patriarchy” was an obscure code term known mainly among feminist scholars. I never imagined it would become nearly the household word it has today.

Yet what does it really mean? Broken down in Greek, it means “rule by the father,” or “father origin system.”

Two problems here: 1) over the last few thousand years, “the father” ~ i.e., “the man” ~ has become increasingly violating, violent, abandoning, or absent.

In my oracle space, I receive that this is not due to anything intrinsic to human males, but rather is fomented by unfriendly forces to our planet who’ve taken over & distorted masculine energy. Important to keep this in mind, and I’ve written more about that in my blog post Reptilian Sex Wars on Planet Earth here.

2) Claiming father origin for our reality goes against the most ancient stories – & the reality of our bodies – that Mother is Source. This is another doing of masculine-valenced interdimensional beings – so-called “gods” – the usurpment of the very Universe itself.

What’s the result? We’re soaking in it: A world that diminishes the values of the Mother & perpetuates intergenerational trauma, sexual abuse, violence, warfare, environmental degradation, strife & more.

Women under the shadow of patriarchy have been put down, repressed, abused, raped, devalued, silenced, and controlled sexually & otherwise through a host of subtle & overt means.

Men under patriarchy have been pressured to fit into certain molds, shut down emotionally, become pumped up or aggressive & dominate others. If they show gentleness or “female” characteristics, they are denigrated. If they don’t fit the measure of the alpha male, they sometimes lose their authentic voice & strength altogether.

Children suffer, animals suffer, Mother Earth herself suffers under patriarchal modes & energies.

Basically, under patriarchy most of us are the walking wounded.

 

Be Held in the Arms of the Mother & Fly with the Fairies

This is the time of the great re-turning to the Divine Feminine who has always been there. She of Ten Thousand Names. Whatever the reasons for this drama, this cycle, the kala chakra is turning now & we can regain access to Feminine Source.

What will Divine Mother say about all this? She will tell. She will show. She will do.

In medicine ceremony recently, I was shown: ultimately this is about constantly returning to love ~ within & among us.

The old gods whose stories of aggression we ate for breakfast are actually tired & losing energy. They are in a last push to possess us utterly. We must remain awake by turning to the wounded parts within us, the inner children still crying like little birds, and courageously love them tenderly, utterly.

We can draw on Mother Divine in any of her many forms for this work. We can draw on the authentic Sacred Masculine, too, in his many forms. There are Great Female & Male Beings there just waiting to help us.

Ask to be re-parented by these Divine Masters. Ask for the full healing of your Soul in this lifetime. Ask to achieve the Divine Marriage within so that you may experience true wholeness & ascend to your own Goddess-given DNA Divinity.

Meditate in this space frequently. Cry. Come to center. Come to Source. Come to peace. Again & again. This is the transmutation process.

 

3 Upcoming Offerings for Healing the Patriarchal Wound

Here are 3 ways I’m working in co-creative partnership with Mother Divine to assist your healing process here on earth:

  • I’m helping women all over the planet re-access your innate oracle abilities – the natural function of connecting with what I call your Divine Sophia Oracle Wisdom. I’m offering my Level 1 Intro to the Dove Oracle Training online course, beginning May 17, to help you facilitate your own opening in this regard.

 

  • I’m offering another Three Oracles Speak evening event ~ Freeing Our Souls & Planet from – Patriarchy with Love & Compassion ~ with my sacred sisters Melissa Sophia Joy Patterson & Maria Owl Gutierrez on April 26 ~ live or livestream. We will join as a delta of oracles to offer wisdom from Mother Divine & the Masters on your questions & to transmit a wave of healing blessings to give you an assist in this great turning. The 3 of us have been in boot camp all month, going through deep purifications, to be of service.

 

  • I’m offering a Day of Fairy Play in the East Bay on Sun April 29 with my sacred sisters Maura McCarley Torkildson & April Aronoff. The fairies are serious ally beings just on the other side of the veil who are also available to help us move into higher dimensional reality through joy, pleasure, grace, ease & magic. Come FEEL THEM in a living experience, learn how to work/play with them more deeply, AND RIDE dragons out on the ley lines to clear our local grids!

The point of power is now. The place of power is here. The person of power is YOU. Join us for one or more of these beautiful events & know that you are not alone in your pain or your healing. The assistance is all around us. We just need to gather.

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