AND… new Thurs session added to my clairvoyance class
In the last few months as I’ve been Doing the Work in therapy, I realize I’ve been run by fear my whole life. This is the legacy of childhood trauma. Sound familiar? There has been so much generational wounding of our fragile human psyches. But in this post-2012 era, as more of us come into greater awareness, now is the time of Great Healing. So what is the antidote to fear? You already know this, but I’ll say it anyway: Love. For my own part, as I continue to identify and integrate the many frozen “children” and other personalities inside, I realize that love is the only way to approach these pieces.
The other day I was feeling angry about a dynamic in a friendship. I wanted things to shift, but I realized that my usual way –– delivering an oh-so-accurate analysis –– was no longer going to cut it. Because, I saw, that approach lacked heart. It wasn’t going to be effective. It lacked heart because in childhood I learned that the only way to stop violations and bring to light the wrong that was going on around me was to get steely and mete out swift and accurate blows from my mind and my tongue.
When I meditated about the current situation, the guidance I received was: Yes, a boundary is needed, but whatever you do, do it with love. Do it with love toward yourself and toward the other person. Infuse with love every thought, utterance, and deed related to this issue. Even now as I write this I’m in the throes of being triggered over something that’s been dragging on that I want to see handled now. I’ve left the scene to give the person space to deal with it in her own way, and I’ve sat down to write this post. Typing the title I had planned on earlier this week –– “Whatever you do, do it with love” –– has again stopped me in my tracks and made me realize I need to escalate down.
Anger is a response feeling powerless. Feeling powerless is a response to fear. This fear is usually old: the fear that you will be violated, that you won’t have what you need, that things will never be different or better. Somewhere in there is usually grief, as well. I heard the spiritual teacher Matt Kahn speak live in San Rafael, CA, on Thursday night. His message was synchronistically in sync with what I’d been receiving this week: The answer to pain is to love the one who is in pain. At core, the one who is in pain is you (me, all of us). Here’s a suggestion: When difficult feelings arise, try approaching yourself with love rather than “make wrong,” “talk out of,” or “detachment.”
Say to yourself: I love the one who is enraged. I love the one who is sad. I love the one who is depressed. I love the one who is numb. I love the one who is scared. I love the one who doesn’t want to be here anymore. I love the one who is jealous. I love the one who is tired. Whatever the feeling, love the one who is having it. Really embrace that one tenderly. Only through this supreme self-love does the healing begin. Only through the self-healing is it possible to see that others are reacting from their pain. Only then is it possible to respond to them with loving feedback and clear requests. Only through this dedicated action will we shift the negative energies that have gripped the planet and caused the generational cascade of wounding going way back.
Looking farther afield, only then will we be able to apply this practice to group and nations. Only then will peace take root. It’s a simple equation for a complex situation, but I am willing to try. Fear, you have been my great teacher, and I honor and thank you. Now I have a new teacher.
With love,
Marguerite
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AND due to wonderful interest I’ve opened up a new Thurs session for the upcoming clairvoyant class… Only a few spots left… Opening to Higher Guidance Clairvoyant & Channelling Skills Course With optional private mentoring
Led by Marguerite Rigoglioso, Ph.D. Six Thurs May 7 – June 18 (No class May 28) 6:45 – 9:30 pm San Rafael, CA
In 6 sessions, you’ll learn how to:
• Regularly clear, cleanse & open your energetic field to your Guides.
• Raise your energy signature so you may receive the highest-level guidance possible.
• Discern between various higher intelligences & their agendas, and identify the one(s) you’re aligned with for delivering messages beyond your own knowing. • Read & channel ethically.
• Protect yourself psychically.
• Use light & receiving empowerments from allied forces.
• Experiment with womb channeling vs. “third eye” channeling (for women).
Again, only a few spots left for the Thurs session (Mon class is full 🙂
For info & to register, visit here.
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Cultivating Yourself as a Priestess
Cutting-edge tools & teachings to support you in stepping up as an evolutionary Sacred Woman. Only 2 payments of $97. Includes a mentoring session with Marguerite For more info, visit here.